Generally the men always tried to appear strong; they walked tall, heads upright, arms steady at the sides, and feet firmly planted like trees. Solid, Jericho walls of men. But when they went out in the bush to relieve themselves and nobody was looking, the fell apart like crumbling towers and wept with the wretched grief of forgotten concubines. And when they returned to the presence of their women and children and everybody else, they stuck hands deep inside torn pockets until they felt their dry thighs, kicked little stones out of the way, and erected themselves like walls again, but then the women, who knew all the ways of weeping and all there was to know about falling apart, would not be deceived; they gently rose from the hearths, beat dust off their skirts, and planted themselves like rocks in front of their men and children and shacks, and only then did all appear almost tolerable. . NoViolet Bulawayo
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This quote is from "The Book of Stars" by Ngugi wa Thiong'o. It is about the life of a Maasai man, Mbiyu, who lives in Kenya. The Maasai are cattle herders who live in the semi-arid savannas of Kenya and Tanzania. This is a powerful quote because it shows the tragedy of male violence towards women.

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